Hello,
recently I had a similar problem with my new Surface Book 3, when I wanted a "Stylus - Pen " in German: Eingabestift for ARV- though I can use the mouse or fingers, but that works clumsy.
Even the Microsoft Slim Pen 2 did not work. Which I returned. It was expensive to.
Then I searched in Amazon. There are many Stylus's Pens - Eingabestifte. Sometimes they are called "Kapazitive Stifte/pens"

Also such which do not have a connection with the devices with gum, silicon-grids on the tips or silicon-discs.
These last mentioned are great to type into smart and tablets/Pads for normal use.
On my iPad I even use a cheap pen with silicon-disc for ARV-Painting, it works fine enough for me. The spare disc are available in Amazon in 10er packs, unbelievably cheap.
But for my Surface Book 3:
I ordered first any unknown Stylus which did not work as well and I returned it. Because I had not read carefully and not asked the seller
But then I found a
"Reinaisser; Rena Pencil" - Set, (the half-price of the Microsoft-Pen), light weight, fine silicon-tops, designed perfect for my hands, with 3 spare tips, USB-connection, Palm rejection.
(which I do not need, I can turn the screen an have a kind of tablet, very convenient for ARV)
Also if you do not with Amazon, you can make you informed about all these pens. There are so many. And for every device one needs a special.
I saw also Wacon Stylus/Pens.
For different edition different Pens (as far as I remember)
But a lot only for iPad and Tablet.
Rarely just for this special Surface Book 3, despite for any other Surfaces/Microsoft.
This Rena Pencil works fine for me.
There might also be some for the Wacon-Tablets.
The summary: I had to study whether and which could be suitable and for a reasonable price for me. I needed hours.
But it was it worth.
I would make for you a screen-shot of the offer in Amazon. But I guess it is not allowed here to attache that.
I hope this give you a hint where to search for a suitable pen.
Kind regards